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If you have experienced sexual violence or know someone who has, The STAR Centre is here to support you. Get in touch here. If you are unable to reach us, you can call the Rape Crisis Scotland helpline

Individual Support

The highly qualified staff at The STAR Centre: Rape Crisis Ayrshire offer specialist therapeutic and emotional support and psychosocial education to survivors of any type of sexual violence in a safe, non-judgemental space. 

We can help you understand what you are going through and support you in finding ways to cope and move forward. You will initially be offered nine, fortnightly sessions, each lasting up to 50 minutes with an experienced support worker after which we will discuss with you what support you need going forward.

You can choose to have your sessions face to face in our Kilmarnock office, or via telephone or video conferencing.

Support for Young People

We are currently able to offer support to young people age 13+. These sessions are delivered by staff with additional expertise in working with younger people and all resources used are age appropriate. These sessions can be delivered face to face in our Kilmarnock office or in a confidential space in the young person’s school.

Group Support

Our group sessions allow survivors to feel less alone while working through what has happened to them. Group programmes are run throughout the year. The next group is scheduled for summer 2024.

Support for Friends and Family

Supporting someone after they have experienced sexual violence can be difficult. You might be worried that you’ll say the wrong thing, or hurt the person you care about. You might feel angry, hurt, guilty or confused. You might be experiencing trauma of your own. Our support staff can offer specialist therapeutic and emotional support and advice in a safe, non-judgemental space. 

Being able to empathise and understand what someone is going through after an experience of sexual violence is so important. We can help you understand what you, and your loved one are going through and support you both in finding ways to cope and move forward.

We also have a dedicated resource page for friends, family and romantic partners of those that have experienced sexual violence.

Rape Crisis Scotland Helpline

Get in touch any day between 5pm – midnight:
Call: 08088 01 03 02
Text: 07537 410 027
Email: support@rapecrisisscotland.org.uk 
Webchat: www.rapecrisisscotland.org.uk

The Rape Crisis Scotland helpline offers confidential short-term, crisis and initial support by phone, email, webchat and text. Our phone, email and webchat support is free and texts will be charged at your normal network rate. Calls to us do not show on your bill.

We support people of all genders living in Scotland aged 13+ who have been affected by sexual violence. It doesn’t matter what happened or how long ago, and you don’t have to talk about anything you don’t want to. We support survivors, as well as family, friends and supporters.

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Every pound donated goes directly to supporting people who have experienced sexual violence.

Donate here

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Today is World Day Against Trafficking in Persons.
Sex trafficking is a brutal form of gender-based violence, and it’s happening in our communities. Victims are often trapped through coercion, manipulation, and fear. Many are survivors of rape and violence. 

At The STAR Centre, we support survivors of sex trafficking with trauma-informed care, advocacy, and a safe space to begin healing. No one should ever be exploited for someone else's gain.💜 

#WorldDayAgainstTraffickingInPersons #EndSexTrafficking #RapeCrisisSupport #AnyBodyAnyTypeAnyTime
For some survivors of sexual violence, sex can trigger flashbacks. 

A flashback is when you re-experience a frightening or painful event from the past. It tends not to be like an ordinary memory, but more a sudden and unexpected intrusion. Flashbacks can present differently from person to person, but can be very distressing. 

A flashback is part of your body's way of processing or reaching some understanding about what happened. It is not something you choose to do, and is not necessarily a reflection on the person you're with. 

If you can speak to your partner about your experience of sexual violence, it may allow you to explain your flashbacks and agree in advance what you want to do if this happens. If you are struggling with flashbacks during sex, it is okay to take time out from the sexual side of your relationship. Your partner should respect your choice and support you .

If you are not able to, or don’t want to disclose your experience with your partner, you may find it helpful to establish boundaries within your intimate relationship and highlight what you are and are not comfortable with. Your partner may ask questions about this but remember, you do not have to disclose your experience if you are not comfortable doing so. 

#Relationships #SupportSurvivors #SexualViolenceAwareness #Love #Trauma #Intimacy #Sexual Violence
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#Quotes #Reminder #SelfLove #SelfAcceptance
💜 Want to support survivors of sexual violence? Our Amazon Wish List is filled with comforting, supportive items like bath bombs, journals, lavender spray, and other self-care essentials. Each item goes directly to a survivor, offering a small but powerful reminder that they are seen, valued, and supported.

✨ Check out the link in our bio or visit our website
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#AmazonWishList #SupportSurvivors #SelfCareIsSupport #AnyBodyAnyTypeAnyTime
Just a reminder 💜

The STAR Centre is always here for you. 

#YouAreNotAlone #SupportForSurvivors #RapeCrisisSupport #TraumaInformedCare #AnyBodyAnyTypeAnyTime
📢 If you or someone you know has been raped or sexually assaulted while abroad, you're not alone and help is available—whether you're still overseas or back in Scotland. If you normally live in Ayrshire The STAR Centre can provide free & confidential advice and support to you once you are back home.

In the meantime, please remember:
🔹 You don’t have to report to the police—it’s your choice.
🔹 The Foreign & Commonwealth Office (FCO) can help with medical care, translation, and support.
🔹 @rapecrisisscot 's helpline offers free, confidential help—wherever you are.
🔹 Sexual violence is NEVER your fault.

Find out more about the Rape Crisis Scotland Helpline Here:
💬 Support is available daily, 5pm–12am (GMT)
📞 Freephone UK: 08088 01 03 02
📞 From abroad: +44 (0)141 331 2715
🌐 www.rapecrisisscotland.org.uk

Contact us at the STAR Centre:
📞01563 544686
📧 admin@starcentreayrshire.org 
🌐 www.starcentreayrshire.org

#SupportForSurvivors #RapeCrisisScotland #YouAreNotAlone #TravelSupport #ScotlandAbroad
Dealing with flashbacks can be overwhelming,  but help is available. 💜
We’re proud to offer free resources from Rape Crisis Scotland on our website to help you understand and manage flashbacks.
Download them anytime via the link in our bio. 🔗 
#Flashbacks #RapeCrisisScotland #FreeResources #AnyBodyAnyTypeAnyTime
This summer we have set up a number of walking groups for survivors of sexual violence using our service to encourage healing and to strengthen their connection with each other and with nature 🍃 Here are some pictures from the first one in Dean Park! 🦆 🦌
Navigating news about gender-based and sexual violence can be really difficult, especially when victim-blaming narratives flood the conversation. It’s okay to recognise when it’s too much and give yourself permission to step back. Remember, taking care of your mental health isn’t just okay, it’s necessary. You’re not alone in this, and The STAR Centre is here to support you. Always. 

#StopVictimBlaming #GenderBasedViolence #SexualViolence #SelfCare #SocialMediaBreak #SupportSurvivors #WereHere #YoureNotAlone #AnyBodyAnyTypeAnyTime
A few weeks ago we did a post on the impacts that sexual violence can have on someone's sexual and romantic #relationships. Here are 4 self-care tips for survivors of sexual violence when it comes to managing relationships 

For more information on the impact of sexual violence on relationships, visit our blog: https://buff.ly/SjYJTqz 

#Relationships #SupportSurvivors #SexualViolenceAwareness #Love #Trauma #Intimacy #Sexual Violence
🌍 Want to see how our prevention team is making an impact in the community?
📍 Follow their work in real time on our interactive map:
👉 www.starcentreayrshire.org/prevention-tracker

#CommunitySupport #PreventionMatters #MakingADifference #STARCentre #Ayrshire #PreventionInAction
Festival season is here! The glitter’s on, the music’s loud, and the fields are filling up.
But while we celebrate the freedom and fun, there’s a hard truth we need to face

🎪 1 in 5 women will experience sexual assault or harassment at a music festival
🎶 43% of women under 40 say they’ve faced unwanted sexual behaviour at festivals

This is not the vibe

No one should have to trade safety for a good time. Harassment and assault have no place in festival culture, on or off the dancefloor

Respect the crowd. Respect the space. Respect each other

💛 The STAR Centre is always here for you, to support and help whenever you need it

 #GlitterAndConsent #SafeFestivals #FestivalSafety #EndHarassment #AnyBodyAnyTypeAnyTime
Each person's reaction to sexual violence is unique, with no correct way to handle trauma. Such experiences can lead to immediate and long-term physical, emotional, and sexual health issues, affecting trust and intimacy even years later. For more on how sexual violence impacts relationships, visit our blog (link in bio). 

#Relationships #SupportSurvivors #SexualViolenceAwareness #Love #Trauma #Intimacy #SexualViolence
🚨Propaganda We Won’t Fall For 🚨

At The STAR Centre, we hear the same harmful myths repeated again and again, not just by individuals, but reinforced through media, institutions, and systems of power. It’s time to call them what they are: propaganda that protects perpetrators and silences survivors.

We will never buy into lies like:

🔻 “False accusations are common”
🔻 “If it really happened, they would want to report it”
🔻 “Men can't be victims”
🔻 “They're making it up for attention”
🔻 “Only strangers commit sexual assault”

These statements are not just untrue; they’re dangerous. They prevent survivors from coming forward. They allow abusers to walk free. And they create a culture where shame, doubt, and stigma thrive.

At The STAR Centre, we believe survivors. We know that sexual violence is complex, underreported, and deeply personal, and that survivors of all genders, backgrounds, and experiences deserve support, not suspicion.

We won’t stay silent. And we won’t fall for the propaganda.

💜 #PropagandaIWontFallFor #RapeMyths #AnyBodyAnyTypeAnyTime
Chris Brown has recently made headlines in the UK for continuing his European Stadium Tour whilst due in court for allegations of grievous bodily harm. Over the years Brown has been accused of rape, sexual assault, domestic violence, assault, and fraud. Yet he still has thousands of fans that support him. 

There are longstanding debates over whether we can ever truly separate the art from the artist. However, there are somethings that are certain: 
⚫ Everyone (whether they’re aware of it or not) knows someone that has experienced sexual or gender-based violence;
⚫ Saying that allegations of sexual violence, assault and domestic abuse are “just one of those things” normalises these behaviours; 
⚫ Saying that people make up allegations of abuse just for money or because they’re jealous harms those that do come forward;
⚫ Saying “he hasn’t killed anyone” minimises the things he has been accused of doing;
⚫ Survivors of sexual and gender-based violence will hear these things.

Gender-based violence should never be normalised, excused or minimised. If you care about issues like sexual violence, domestic abuse, or violence against women its time to hold abusers accountable, even if it is someone you like. 

#ChrisBrown #ChristBrownTour ##ChrisBrown #BreezyBowl #Hampden #music #ArtVsArtist #ChrisBrownTour #MeToo #SupportSurvivors #Accountability
🌈✨ As Pride month draws to a close we want to remind everyone that at The Star Centre, we proudly support survivors of every gender & sexuality all year round.  Love is love, and everyone deserves to feel believed, safe, & supported. 💜 #AnybodyAnyTypeAnyTime
What counts as sexual violence? Any sexual activity that happens without consent, which means that it includes things that happen in person and online. If it happened without your consent, it counts. There’s no such thing as “too small” or “not serious enough.” Your experience matters - and so do you. The Star Centre is here to support you. Always.
#AnyBodyAnyTypeAnyTime
Say something kind to yourself today 💗
The numbers are clear: sexual violence greatly affects LGBT+ communities.

• 88% of LGBT+ people report experiencing sexual harassment and 77% have been sexually assaulted since age 18 (Galop, 2023)
• 85% say it harmed their mental health, and 64% have self-harmed after (Galop, 2023)
• 37% of gay & bisexual men feel unable to speak about their experience to anyone (Survivors UK, 2022)
• Roughly, 50% of transgender people have experienced sexual violence at some point (Trans Mental Health Survey, 2012)

At The STAR Centre, we’re committed to providing a safe, welcoming space for all survivors. We know LGBT+ survivors face unique barriers; and we’re here to listen, believe, and support you with respect and care.

You are not alone. 💜

#AnyBodyAnyTypeAnyTime
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